You know, when it comes to writing about purpose, I sometimes feel a bit too young for it. But then again, given how much I've thought about it, I figured it's worth putting down what it means to me so far. If my thoughts change down the line, I'll probably pen another blog about it. ✍️
When I first started contemplating purpose, it felt like this monumental, almost unattainable concept. But over time, I realized it's not that grandiose. In fact, the more you search for a meaningful life, the more you might come to understand that life itself is inherently meaningless. Sounds bleak, right? But bear with me. 🤔
Since last year, I've been on a gap year. I remember my last college exam and final show on May 28th, 2023. Now, it's June 5th, 2024, and I've been on this break for a bit over a year. During this time, I've done a lot of thinking, reading, and introspection. The idea of purpose has been a recurring theme because it's what drives me. I chose fashion because I enjoy it, not because of the money. Money, for me, is secondary to the joy and meaning I find in what I do. 👗✨
Life can often feel overwhelming, and I don't want to feel hopeless. To me, purpose is as simple as finding something that gives me a sense of fulfillment. For example, I’ve been reading "A Little History of Everything" by Bill Bryson. The way he explains the vastness of the universe and our tiny place in it is oddly motivating. It puts things in perspective. 🌌📖
We are just one of 8 billion people on this planet, and our daily worries and successes often matter only to our immediate circle. Thinking about purpose from this perspective can shift your priorities. If you’re chasing money, power, or validation, it might be worth asking yourself why. Is it truly fulfilling, or are you trying to meet external expectations? 💭💸
Over the past year, I initially felt worthless, living off my parents' money without contributing anything significant. But then, I realized that my value isn’t tied to my productivity or financial success. Even though I didn’t add anything noteworthy to my CV during this break, I found value in just being. My presence matters to my family, my friends, and even my dog. 🐶❤️
Just like my dog, who simply eats and enjoys life, I realized there’s nothing wrong with finding joy in the simplicity of being. Purpose doesn't have to be tied to grand achievements. It's about enjoying the journey and finding meaning in the little things. 🌟
People often suggest following a specific path to avoid feeling purposeless, but I think it’s okay to explore multiple interests. Given the rapid changes in technology and society, having diverse skills and passions can be an asset. It’s about finding confidence in the many things you’re good at, even if you’re not the best at any one thing. 🌐✨
Your value doesn’t change with your salary. It's about finding self-worth at your lowest points and enjoying the process. If you can feed yourself three times a day, that’s a good starting point. Above that, it’s about having fun with life. Your purpose is to enjoy the game, explore what you like, and not get too hung up on external validations. 🎯🍀
Think about it: our presence matters to a few people, and that’s enough. Don’t be afraid of change or what others might think. There's no absolute right or wrong. As long as you stay within the bounds of the law and ethics, you can carve your own path. Breaking free from societal expectations is challenging, but it’s worth it for your peace of mind. 🌈🌱
Purpose is about finding what makes you happy and fulfilled. It’s not a static concept; it evolves with you. As you grow and experience more, your understanding of purpose will change, and that’s perfectly okay. It's all about being open to this evolution and enjoying the ride. 🚀💫
In summary, purpose isn’t a fixed destination but a journey of self-discovery and fulfillment. It’s about finding joy in the little things, embracing change, and not letting external pressures dictate your path. If your thoughts on purpose change over time, that’s natural. What matters is staying true to yourself and finding meaning in your unique journey. 💖🌟
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